1. Every time your husband plays with the kids, your phone is out. You record. You smile. You think: “This is so sweet.” Your gallery fills with “Best Dad Ever” moments. But when you are with the kids — cooking, listening, helping, soothing — no one records. Not because it matters less. But because it looks “ordinary.” 2. Care is assumed. Play is praised. Research shows mothers are viewed as the default caregiver. What’s expected becomes unseen. When dads engage, it’s framed as special. When mom

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